Hmmm … maybe this trip was perfectly planned just the way we were doing it.
We headed out to grab some lunch. I didn’t really know where I was going, so we settled on some random pizza place that seemed nice enough.
“This place is ok, isn’t it?” I asked as we sat down.
“It’s fine,“ she said, "I’m pregnant.”
Still, the possibility of having a baby didn’t seem all that real to us in those first couple of months of that year, especially as I was mentally, and then literally, checking out of my job. To be honest, each of us probably would have bet that, after a decade or so of birth control, it would have taken several months for her system to clear out enough for it to even be possible. The lesson: don’t bet against nature.
Not that this was unwelcome news. It was wonderful news, actually. It was news, however, that required some heavy processing on my part. I mean, here I was, in the midst of the quintessentially selfish pursuit: the quest to find oneself on a solitary road trip. A venture which, at its very heart, is all about sloughing off responsibilities and escaping Real Life for a few short weeks. And what happens? Real Life hires a skip-tracer, tracks me down and hogties me in the middle of pizza place in West Los Angeles. To say I was off my game for the rest of the day would be a bit of an understatement. I soon got my head together, though, and within the space of a couple of hours I went from "WTF?!” to wondering whether I would have a son or a daughter.
We had made a plan at lunch not to tell ANYONE about the pregnancy until we had time to process it ourselves. That plan lasted about seven hours when we spilled the beans to Todd over two margaritas and a water with lemon.
If you couldn’t tell, planning isn’t exactly our strong suit.